May 29, 2013

What I love about my life right now


I love working in the mornings and coming home to long afternoons completely by my self, well, of course, with the cats. I love driving Amber to school. I love that she is about to start the adventure known as college, I am equal parts proud and scared, the empty nest looms on the horizon, making me grateful for this day.
I love being in my beautiful house, which is clean, tidy and organized, colorful and bright, full of joy, sunlight, plants and crystals. I love my garden, I love planning on how to make it even better. I love improving my life. 
I love my phd program and learning, learning, learning, creating for myself the time to read. I love being a teacher, I love my students, I love imparting information and empowering others. 
I love my work, I love my clients, I love seeing them change before my eyes as they tune in to their true nature and are also empowered. 
I love my body, I feel strong and healthy, I love my clothes and I love wearing essential oils. I love my cats, that goes without saying. Again I think, I love Amber, watching her blossom before me, I love watching tv together and going out for French fries, quiet times driving in the car listening to the oldies ie my generation, the eighties on the radio. 
I love having Chip in my life, I love our communication, our dance, the ways we come together and move apart during the week, someone I don't take for granted and always feel blessed to spend the time together. I love that we take ballroom dance classes and I love, love, love that we will be married. I love being in love, I love feeling happy.

May 23, 2013

Thoughts on Jealousy

My cats get jealous of each other, so I see that jealousy occurs in nature. What evolutionary purpose can jealousy serve? What message do we get when we sit and have tea with jealousy? What do my cats want? 

Attention. Jealousy can be a message that you need attention from another or need to give attention to yourself. As human beings we need attention, appreciation, to feel respected. And each of us truly deserve attention.

Don't give your power away by saying "she is more (rich, thin, successful, etc). we are all one and rember that whatever that person has you have too, and even better, now you don't have to do it. I see skinny women and I get to enjoy my chubby buddha belly. I see married people and I get to enjoy being single. I see rich people and I get to enjoy not having that much responsibility. 

I did a ritual today to release feelings of despair, abandonment, being disrespected, disregarded and having my feelings dismissed. Ritual is conscious transformation of energy. I blessed all my support systems, from my closest friends, talking to my mother and my brother, working with my coach as well as all of my loyal clients, who have shown up for me and given me what I needed when I needed it the most. Mostly, I honored my self, my tears and my struggles, sang chants to Innana as I buried the ashes of the past, my rage, my grief in the backyard. And yes, both my cats, true companions, were with me the whole time.

Find the love, attention and encouragement you need and deserve to be you, fabulous YOU, and notice the feelings evaporating... let me know how I can help you in your process.

I am the daughter of the ancient mother
I am the child of the mother of the world

Oh Innana
it is you who teaches us
to die, be reborn and rise again
to die, be reborn and rise again
to die, be reborn and rise...
-Lisa Thiel 

May 4, 2013

Wholistic Health and Reiki

Reiki Raises Vibrations
Wholistic Health and Reiki

Every Reiki session is unique and different. Sometimes the client will talk as different emotions are released, sometimes they are quiet. Sometimes I will do a guided meditation, to balan

ce the chakras or strengthen certain body parts and release stress. Often I will have visions and see colors,which I find useful to share with the client. After the Reiki session, I may suggest certain aromatherapy blends, breathing exercises, gemstones or colors that would further enhance the client's energy and overall vibration.

Reiki treats the whole being, and works well when combine with other modalities to express the emotions, balance the body, harmonize the mind and enlighten the soul.

Click here for more information on Reiki in Santa Cruz. Please use the contact page to schedule your Reiki appointment.

May 1, 2013

Self Hypnosis for Success



A simple Self Hypnosis Technique with Kayla Garnet Rose, Certified Hypnotherapist, Santa Cruz, California

Simple Self Hypnosis Technique
• Inhale and look up at eyebrows
• Exhale and close eyes
• Take a deep breath & exhale with a sigh
• Take a moment to experience the words:
Calm
Peaceful
Tranquil
Relaxed

With each inhale, breathe in relaxation
With each exhale, breathe out discomfort

• Say some affirmation(s)

• Count yourself back
1. Start to bring yourself back
2. Notice the feelings in your body
3. Be aware of your space
4. Move a bit, stretch, readjust
5. Coming all the way back, feeling awake, relaxed and energized

April 17, 2013

8 Ways Hypnosis can Reduce Stress

8 Ways Hypnosis can Reduce Stress

Imagine holding a drinking glass half full of water. Ask yourself, what do you see here? Is this glass... 8oz or 12oz? Either way, it only weighs a little. But if you hold it for 15 minutes, your arm will shake, after an hour, the arm will go numb, and after a day you will need to be hospitalized. Imagine the water is stress. Even if you only have a little, you need to be able to put it down now and then.

Who do you know who is stressed? Hypnotherapy helps you manage your stress, rather than having your stress manage you. It's the ability to go inside yourself and discover answers. Indeed, hypnotherapy provides every day solutions for every day problems. It provides a means to make a more empowered choice, aligning the head and heart in making the best decision in the moment.

One definition of stress in the need to make a decision. Life is continuously full of decisions, including career changes, moving locations, getting married, getting divorced, deciding to get pregnant, you know, every day problems. Really, once we have made up our mind, we know what to do. It's the weighing of options that can weigh us down, and using hypnosis is an extremely effective way to release doubt, especially self doubt, as well as to affirm life continuously improving through stressful times.

Now stress serves a purpose. Think of the stress in a guitar sting. It requires a certain amount of tension to be in tune. Too much stress, and the string will break. Too little, and will sound dull and flaccid. Our psyches also benefit from regular tunings to create feelings of internal harmony and well being.

Here are eight ways that hypnosis can help you reduce and manage stress:

1.Hypnosis is a relaxed, focused state of concentration where you can put your whole being -mind, body and soul- into the process. It is a way to create an action plan, find encouragement and experience accountability. Ask yourself, what would really make you happy?

2. Learn and use the Simple Self Hypnosis technique to experience the feeling of calm, relaxed, peaceful and tranquil whenever you like, whether in a bored meeting or stuck in traffic, running late or waiting for someone.

3. Change triggers to release positive feelings. Example, meter maids in Canada would perceive insults as the highest praise. What are your buttons and how would you like to respond differently?

4. Contain and dispose of old toxic emotions that add to personal burden, such as guilt, shame, powerlessness, jealousy, victim hood, manipulative, greed and poor self esteem. What old patterns of behavior are you ready to dispose of now?

5. Learn the real pause that refreshes. By going inside for a few minutes, discover making better food choices,finding the motivation to exercise, having a moment to change a habitual reaction into a kind and loving response. Where in your life do you need some breathing room?

6. Make decisions with confidence and ease having spent the time exploring all the possibilities and options with full focus and attention. Sometimes when at the crossroads, it's important to consult a guide.

7. Go on a fantasy vacation and visit the Club Med in your head. Experience deep relaxation with feelings of plenty of time to simply unwind, let go and enjoy.

8. Change old habits that were once coping mechanisms such as smoking, eating for comfort, nail biting etc that actually cause more stress than they release into new, healthy habits.

Kayla Garnet Rose, Certified Hypnotherapist, Experience insights for personal growth and transformation. Conveniently located on the Westside, a nice walk to the beach. Regular office hours are10 am to 6pm, Monday thru Friday. Sessions are $95, students and seniors $85. For more information or weekly inspiration please visit kaylagarnetrose.com.


Warmly,

Kayla

www.KaylaGarnetRose.com
831.435.5182

April 6, 2013

What happens during Reiki?

Revitalize with Reiki
What happens during a Reiki session? A lot of people are wondering...

Usually during a reiki session, I start at the clients feet and work my way up to the crown chakra then back down to the feet again. I hold two points with my fingers and will feel two different pulses. I pass energy through my hands, first one way then the other, until I feel the pulses match up. That is when I know it is time to move my hands.

The points are the bottoms of the feet, knees, sides of the hips, solar plexus, collar bones, elbows, wrists, jaw bone, temples and crown of the head. Some people do not want any touch, so I will hover my hands an inch or so above that point instead. Some people talk during the session, others drift into sleep or go into a meditative trance. Often we do guided meditations although silence is one of the most powerful healers. The experience is generally soothing, calming, and deeply relaxing.

Click here for more information on Reiki in Santa Cruz. Please use the contact page to schedule your Reiki appointment.

April 3, 2013

Secrets to Success: Discover Hypnosis



Discover Hypnosis with Kayla Garnet Rose, Certified Hypnotherapist, Santa Cruz, California

Frequently Asked Questions

Q: What is hypnosis and how does it work?
A: Hypnosis is a very natural process of entering a state of deep relaxation. This helps your subconscious mind become more attentive, receptive to suggestion, and open to change. The practitioner will guide you into a trance, and then facilitate your inner explorations. Much like being in a lucid dream, your subconscious will reveal to you the steps for successful solutions through experiencing insights for personal growth & transformation.

Q: How can I be sure I can be hypnotized?
A: Hypnosis is a natural, though altered, state of mind. You enter some form of hypnosis several times a day, like when you are driving and pass your turn-off because you haven’t been paying attention, or being absorbed in a good book. Everyone goes through natural, altered states before they fall asleep, and as they come into wakefulness.

Q: Can a hypnotist make me do something I don’t want to do?
A: All hypnosis is actually "self-hypnosis." You are allowing the hypnotist to guide you into your deeper and broader memory and other resources. Since it is a 100% consent state, no one can hypnotize you against your will. You are free to reject and receive any suggestion at any time, and to come out of trance at any time by merely opening your eyes.

Q: Will I reveal too much when I am hypnotized?
A: Hypnosis is not a truth-serum or other drug. It is not like "opening Pandora’s Box" and letting out all your secrets. Since you are in charge, and letting yourself be hypnotized, your own mind determines how much or how little you wish to contribute to a hypnosis session. You can just as freely answer and not answer questions in a hypnotic state as you do in a wide-awake one.

Q: How many sessions will I need?
A: Resolving your issue will depend on the issue itself, as well as on your commitment to change. Typically, you will know within 3 sessions whether Hypnotherapy is effective for you.

Q: How often should I schedule sessions?
A: Some clients visit each week, others come as often as they see fit to address their needs.

Q: How long is one session?
A: Sessions run between 60 to 75 minutes.

Q: What else should I do?
A: Drink water; Practice what you learn in sessions; Keep a journal; Balance work & play; Breathe deep; Check in with other healers for a holistic experience - ask for a referral for any service you may need at this time.

Q. Habit cessation
A. Just as people develop habits for many different reasons, people also desire to stop their habits for just as many reasons. I work with people to find the underlying causes. What do you like and dislike about your habit? How did it serve you? What will serve that purpose now? What will you miss? What is your main motivation to quit? What does it mean to you? Through a combination of guided imagery and regression healings, you will find changing your habits easy and with long term results.

Q. What is Hypnosis used for?
A. Anytime you would like to feel focused, have a goal to achieve, or want to check in with your deeper self. Whether accessing your inner coach for true motivation, or inner couch for deep relaxation, discover how hypnosis can serve you. I have had positive results with:
Anxiety & releasing fear
Body image
Business partnerships
Career change
Chakra balancing
Communication blocks
Creative blocks
Deciding on having a baby
Decision making
Deep relaxation
Developing intuition
Easy Birth
Fertility issues
Finding one’s purpose
Follow through on intentions
Habit change
Heartbreak
Improving intimacy
Inner resources
Insomnia
Integrating parts of self
Job interview prep
Job/career questions
Loneliness
Money, prosperity & abundance
Meditation practice
Mental blocks
Mind-body healing
Money issues
Nightmares
Pain management
Past lifes
Phobias
Phone anxiety
Pre & post surgery
Public speaking
Reconnecting with family members
Reducing stress
Regret & Resentment
Relationship issues
Releasing old grief
Releasing past trauma
Self esteem
Self Sabotage
Smoking cessation
Spiritual Guidance
Sports enhancement
Stage Fright
Strengthening resolve
Stress reduction
Support during chemo/radiation
Test anxiety
Time management
Transitions
Tying up loose ends
Weight management